If you’re planning on going abroad with children who do not share your surname you may not be able to travel unless you have the right paperwork.

These days many parents have different surnames from their children – but few realise the complications it can cause at the airport.

Now a lawyer has offered advice to mothers and fathers to prevent them being denied check-in, turned back at the border control – or accidently coming under suspicion of kidnap.

Being stopped, grilled and even turned away at border control is an ordeal an estimated 600,000 parents have had to deal with.

One of those was Wigan mum Hannah Marshall, who was stopped with her daughter Lilly at London Stansted Airport when they returned from a holiday in Denmark, reports the Manchester Evening News http://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/whats-on/family-kids-news/travelling-abroad-children-different-surname-13026606 .

At the time Hannah, 28, wasn’t married to Lilly’s dad Scott, so while Lilly had the surname Marshall, Hannah’s was still Thomas.

Hannah said: “While queuing I went to one desk with my daughter and my partner and his mum went to another desk for passport control.

“They looked at both mine and my daughter’s passports then asked me how I knew the little girl and when I said it was my daughter they asked why I did not have the same last name.

“They asked my daughter who I was to her and that’s when my partner came over and explained that she’s his daughter too and as we weren’t married she had his last name.

“They told us that my partner should have taken her through passport control because I would need to prove she was my daughter. They checked my partner’s passport to prove she held the same last name and then let us through.”

It can, however, be difficult for a person to prove they are a child’s parent on the spot, unless they are carrying the right documents.

David Connor, who heads up the family department at Woodcocks Haworth and Nuttall Solicitors, says parents need to plan ahead to avoid being caught out.

He said: “People need to take extra caution when holidaying with children who don’t share their surname as they could unknowingly end up embroiled in a child abduction case, be refused past check-in, or turned away at border control.

“It’s vital you have the correct documentation to hand or it could derail your trip.

“For separated families, you’ll need evidence of approval from your child’s other parent, but remember to seek approval from everyone with parental responsibility – this may include grandparents too.”

He added: “You’ll also need a copy of any Child Arrangement Order which proves you have court approval to take the child abroad.

“It’s vital that all evidence marries up and this is where divorced parents are often caught out, particularly women who revert back to their maiden name. A change of name deed will help here, which can be supplied by a solicitor. Take a copy of your child’s birth certificate with you too to prove who you are.”

You won’t need permission from an absent parent if they’re not on the child’s birth certificate, but if an absent parent has passed away you may be required to take the death certificate with you.

If an absent parent doesn’t consent to you taking the child out of the country you will need to go to court to try and resolve the matter.

For more details about seeking permission to take children abroad, visit the government website https:// www.gov.uk/permission-take-child-abroad .